Friendship?

I could use some advise. I have a friendship that I am feeling very unsatisfied with and I need some advise about it.

My friend (none of you!) that says she cares about me. When we talk, she says that she loves me and that she wants to put the effort necessary into having a real, deep, and true friendship. The problem is that I do not enjoy the effort she is giving. In my mind, the things that she does to build a relationship are not profitable.

First, she says that she wants to get to know me, so she asked to read my journals. I thought that was not too strange, so I let her. She has put a lot of time into reading them, but now she feels like she is the utmost authority on me. She tells other people about me based on what she read, which would be fine since I have nothing to hide, but she has misunderstood much of what I was writing. The information she shares is often slightly off, and sometimes is just plain wrong. When I confront her and try to talk through some of the things she has misunderstood, she blows me off and says she doesn't have any time to talk face to face. It seems like see is more interested in spending time reading my journals than she is in talking to me.

Second, she has long conversations about me with other people. Again, this doesn't seem bad, but some of information she is getting and sharing is wrong. She has collected letters about me written by other people and often judges me based on what others say about me. This has lead to her accusing me of being mean, unfair, harsh and uncaring. I try to explain that she is receiving a one-sided story from others, but again, she refuses to actually listen to me and take the time to talk through these issues. In a way I feel that her esteem of me is slipping. It seems the more she reads ABOUT me and talks ABOUT me, the worse her understanding of me.

Third, she has given me a block of her time. She said that she is very busy, which I fully understand, and that she can only spend a portion of her time building our friendship. If I call or ask to see her other than during this set time she acts like it is a huge disruption of her time. She really acts put out and sometimes even refuses to talk to me. I understand that she needs to manage her time, but sometimes I need someone to talk to other than at a specified time. I think that a real friendship should be more flexible. I wish that we could just enjoy small snippets of time together throughout the day, a conversation her, an email there, and maybe some alone time (but not always at a set in stone, specified time!)

Please help me understand if I am out of line here. This person is very important to me. I love her so much that I am willing to love her no matter what, but I was wondering if any of this seems strange to anyone else. Thanks!